What exactly is Money? We can’t live with it, and we can’t live without it. There’s never quite enough of it, no matter how hard we try and convince ourselves otherwise. And we’re way beyond understanding how to make ends meet. For the majority of us, the only thing increasing in our bank account is the level of debt.
Is that how you feel? You’re not alone.
“Money is better than poverty, if only for financial reasons.” (Woody Allen)
Well, there’s no need to fret. Being able to get onto an even footing with finances is hard, but not impossible, but you need to take small steps. You won’t get there overnight. However achieving your aim doesn’t have to be painful; moreover, you’re likely to be more successful if you make a sport of it. The trick is to always start small, and move forward slowly, building good habits as you go.
First of all create a Family Budget. Sketch out on paper each family member’s responsibility for the various expenses. Also note each person’s allowance for discretionary expenses.
The idea here is to get everyone sitting down and discussing how much can be spent on what. It’s necessary for everyone to keep to their limit and keep control of their expenses rather than letting the expenses run away with them.
It’s necessary for everyone to have a certain degree of financial privacy and freedom. Best not to dwell on past mistakes. However if someone in the family finds it difficult or impossible to stick to their agreed budget, they should know their financial freedom would be removed from them.
As P T Barnum (America’s greatest circus showman) said: “Debt robs a man of his self-respect, and makes him almost despise himself.”
Best to learn to live within your means even if it means going without. Your own self-esteem is at stake here, and if credit is a must, then use it wisely.
The School of Hard Knocks is a great character-developer. It’s also known as the University of Life. There’s nothing quite like good all-round experience.
This is the point where I say something like: Think about what your father and mother would have said… They were the ones who saved up before going out to buy something. They didn’t expect to have that new car or new TV and then begin paying for it. That’s the best example to us all in these days of Credit Crunch problems.
To learn from others is a skill worth having. Time-tested principles and values are the best of teachers. Much can be learned from listening to and reading the journals of wise men and women. After all, chances are they have already been there, and done that! We have to see things in all different ways, and not just in one perspective. Can you imagine what life would be like without any words of wisdom from our elders (and betters)?
To leave you with this thought for the day: “The talent for being truly happy is to appreciate, and like, what you actually have, instead of wishing for those things you don’t have.”
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